Hi R, great to get your email, hey, the thought of you making out with an escort has reached a deep warm place inside me, she sounds wonderful, what you have with her is what i need with a man. also, thanks for sharing, R, it’s very reassuring having one of your secrets, somehow it makes me feel less exposed for sharing mine with you.
Anyway, C said that she and A are setting up regular parties and tons of men want to come but not enough women, so they’re going to start charging the men, so it’s only fair that some of the money should go to the women, so if i want to come i’ll get some money. gettin’ paid for bein’ laid, as the song says.
You know what, R, i’m tempted. i was thinking about it when i got your email. your relationship with your girlfriend seems completely unaffected by paying her money, in fact, it seems better because everybody knows where everybody stands and you don’t have the problem of having someone in your life for longer than you want.
Speaking as a woman, anyway, it almost seems that if you go to a free sex-party it tells everyone that you’re desperate, and this is somehow more demeaning than charging a fee. C says that lots of men think this too, they think that you’ve got to be a bit stupid not to charge when you know men will pay.
Actually C was telling me that there are a couple of men who have specifically asked if i’d like to go with them on a date, C says essentially that means a night in a hotel or a dirty weekend, she says i could charge for that too, in fact she occasionally does just that.
C says i should come along to the next sex-party without any obligation, but if i participate i can have the money. or i can turn it away, if it’s not something i want to do. i’ve told her i’ll go along on that basis. now i find i’m looking forward to it.
Actually i’m finding all this very exciting, R, it makes me feel young. email soon. Jxxx.
